Living the Scandinavian Dream: Is It Really Worth It?
When I was just 24, I took a leap of faith and chose to spend a year traveling through the enchanting landscapes of Scandinavia. As a budding journalist in Seoul—covering everything from K-pop to the latest celebrity gossip—the decision felt monumental. Exploring fjords, meeting Vikings, and immersing myself in the much-lauded Nordic lifestyle was a fantasy I couldn’t resist. But now, back in Seoul, I carry reflections about that year that may surprise you. Spoiler alert: The Scandinavian lifestyle, while picturesque, has a hefty price tag that made me question its worth.
Let’s dive into why the Scandinavian utopia many rave about may not be the paradise it appears to be—at least for a traveler.
1. The Cost of Living Is Sky-High
If you think living in Seoul is expensive, brace yourself for Scandinavia. In cities like Oslo and Copenhagen, the daily expenses can leave your wallet feeling unusually light. A simple lunch—a sandwich paired with coffee—can easily set you back 20,000 to 25,000 won (around 15 to 20 US dollars). Dining out is even more shocking; I still remember a frugal meal I ordered at a recommended restaurant in Norway, only to discover the bill was twice what I would’ve paid back home.
Most travelers can feel the crunch, especially if you lack a stable source of income in the region. Thus, unless you’re armed with a generous savings account or have a substantial earning opportunity, your budget will dwindle faster than you can say “SMØRBRØD!”
2. Weather: The Long, Dark Winters Can Be Tough
If you love sunshine, you might want to reconsider. Scandinavian winters are long and dark, with daylight becoming a rare commodity. Unlike the four seasons in Seoul, where winters are cold but bright, many parts of Scandinavia can leave you in a near-endless night during winter months.
At first, I found it mysterious and enchanting, but after a few weeks, the constant darkness began to cast a shadow on my mood. Imagine waking up at 9 a.m., only to find the sky still shrouded in black. It drains motivation and makes sightseeing a race against the clock before sundown!
Yes, some may find solace in the concept of "hygge" (the Danish art of coziness) or "mys" (the Swedish equivalent), enjoying warm, intimate evenings indoors. But for me, the dark was more isolating than cozy, amplifying my longing for Seoul’s bustling nightlight.
3. Social Culture: Polite, Yet Distant
Every culture boasts its own charms, and that’s part of what makes traveling so enriching. As a Korean, I cherish our warmth, closeness, and boisterous gatherings—where meals are family-style and conversations flow freely.
In contrast, Scandinavian social interactions can feel polite but distant. Breaking through that initial barrier to form friendships takes time. It’s not typical to engage in small talk on public transportation; in fact, many locals may view unsolicited conversation as intrusive.
Even as I began to make wonderful friends, I often felt the individual’s loneliness seep in, missing the fervor of Seoul’s nightlife, where neighbors become friends and strangers converse like old pals.
4. The Idealized “Scandinavian Lifestyle”
We’ve all seen the glamorous images of Scandinavia—stylish homes nestled among pristine landscapes, idyllic lifestyles praised in numerous rankings of the "best countries to live in."
But here’s the not-so-glamorous truth: beneath the beauty lies reality. High taxes, strict regulations, and a staggering cost of living can feel suffocating, especially for transient visitors. While citizens reap benefits like free healthcare and education, concerns arise when foreigners try to navigate such a structured system.
Remember, even in the happiest of countries, discontent can simmer beneath the surface. Conversations with some locals revealed a feeling of pressure to conform, reminding me that every place has its complexities.
5. Cultural Differences: Missing the Buzz of Seoul
One of the most jarring adjustments for me was recognizing how quiet many Scandinavian cities become after dark. While Seoul thrives on a vibrant 24-hour culture, with eateries and cafes bustling until the wee hours, my experience in places like Stockholm often felt stale post-9 p.m.
For someone who thrives on city energy and spontaneous adventures, the slow pace felt stifling. I recall one Tuesday night yearning for a late-night snack, only to find convenience stores shuttered long before my Korean internal clock would allow.
While peace and quiet have their allure, if you crave excitement and camaraderie, the quieter Scandinavian lifestyle may not resonate with you.
Final Thoughts: Worth the Visit, but Consider the Long-Term
Reflecting on my year in Scandinavia, I’m filled with gratitude for the unforgettable experiences I had: hiking in breathtaking fjords, savoring authentic Nordic meals, and celebrating local traditions. However, if you’re contemplating a shift to a longer-term Scandinavian lifestyle—think twice.
Reality often deviates from the picture-perfect images featured in travel guides. The loomy cost of living, harsh weather, and nuanced social codes created challenges I hadn’t anticipated. While the scenery is undeniably gorgeous and worth the trip, the daily intricacies can become burdensome rather than blissful.
Returning to Seoul, I found anew the love for its relentless vibrancy—the pulsating life, the bright lights, and the always-open convenience stores that define its urban charm. The treasures of Scandinavia will remain alive in my memory, but I’ve come to understand that my heart beats best in Seoul.
In conclusion, every place has its highs and lows, and the measure of "worth" ultimately lies in your personal preferences. Scandinavia proved to be a remarkable adventure, but for someone like me, who thrives on activity and connection, the enchantment of Scandinavia is best enjoyed as a fleeting visit rather than a permanent embrace. If you plan to explore this alluring region, go ahead! Prepare for a slower pace and keep your wallet ready, because the Scandinavian dream isn’t as simple as it seems.
