Raising Queens: Ricardo Case’s Heartfelt Approach to Fatherhood
When it comes to fatherhood, Ricardo Case never aimed for perfection; his goal was simply to be present. Balancing the demands of his career as a senior vice president at the Jamaica Public Service Company (JPS) with the joys and challenges of parenting, Case is on a mission to shape the lives of his two daughters, Taylor, 25, and Courteney, 18. Through his story, we learn that leading at home closely mirrors his professional ethos: listening, adapting, and building with intention.
The Art of Presence
“My job is to pour into them,” Case tells Living. “And then let them figure it out. I’ve created the environment. Now they’ll choose the path.” This philosophy highlights his unique blend of structure and surrender, essential components that define his parenting style.
Key Values for the Next Generation
Case is keen on imparting important life lessons to his daughters, such as:
- The value of discipline
- The importance of hard work
- The necessity of not procrastinating
However, entwined with these teachings is the vital lesson of stepping back and allowing Taylor and Courteney to make their own choices.
"Me and my wife, Nichole, are intent on raising queens. We do not want our children to live in our shadow. They should eventually outgrow us,” Case asserts.
A Foundation of Love
Growing up in a multigenerational home in Independence City and South Edgewater, Portmore, St. Catherine, Case learned early on that love is expressed through consistency and clear expectations. These formative years grounded him and significantly influenced his current parenting style.
Now, Case emphasizes the importance of modeling behaviors rather than micromanaging. At home, he isn’t just the senior vice president; he’s the dad who loses at board games and makes space for various moments—whether it’s laughter, advice, or silence—catering to his daughters’ needs in each instance.
“I want them to feel seen,” he shares, “not just provided for.”
The Difference Between Presence and Performance
In today’s world, many fathers find it challenging to be actively involved. Case reflects on this gap and offers his poignant advice:
“Just show up. That’s what I’d tell any man. The hug. The phone call. The quiet check-in. That’s what they will remember. That’s what makes the difference. Fatherhood is a precious gift; the rewards are abundant. It’s a truly special journey I share with my wife, Nichole.”
Guiding Principles
Case’s faith and four guiding mantras shape his day-to-day decisions, both at work and home:
- Let your light shine
- Do unto others as you’d like done unto you
- The brave may fall, but never yield
- The answer is in the room
These principles have been his compass throughout 35 years at JPS and continue to influence his leadership style as well as his familial interactions.
A Legacy of Love and Empowerment
As one of the Caribbean’s leading electrical engineers, Case stands firm on one essential truth—family comes first. His unwavering legacy for his daughters emphasizes:
"You are loved, powerful, and more than enough."
In a world that often complicates parenthood, Ricardo Case reminds us that the essence of being a present father lies in love, understanding, and the willingness to engage fully—one precious moment at a time.
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